Do you assume you can’t have what your soul wants?
I catch myself doing that a lot. But why do we spend so much energy assuming we can’t have? Hello, EGO! Yep, that’s right! It’s your ego that assumes you can’t have what your soul wants.
The ego thinks you’ll want something that you won’t be able to get and then you’ll be disappointed. So, instead of letting you feel that disappointment, it just starts off by telling you, you can’t have it. This has become so rampant that many people don’t even know what they really want anymore. I run into this a lot when helping clients buy a home.
Assuming you can’t have and its twin – not knowing what you want are a dangerous combination when making such an important decision and financial investment. Any time that you catch yourself assuming that you can’t have what you want, I hereby give you permission to figure out what you want and assume you’ll get it.
When thinking about what you want in a home or anything else, give your ego the job of exploring the options then sit quietly with your soul and ask which option it wants you to have. For help hearing your soul, check out Episode 03. I hope you’ll start assuming you can have what your soul wants.
If you feel moved, write about this below because sharing is good for your soul. Next time, we’ll talk about the assumption we can’t have because there isn’t enough money.
Until next week, I wish you well on your journey.